Do Men & Women Speak a Different Language?

As I continue to go grow up in this world and soon to be involved in that thing that people call the "real world", the question I keep asking myself is: Do men and women speak a different language? I'm not an expert and I'm not going to pretend that I am one, but I will offer my two cents about the subject.

Language Between Each Other

As I continue down the path of life, I couldn't help to notice that even though we speak the same language (whether that's English, Spanish or whatever language you speak), it's our personalities that make up for that language barrier between both sexes. For instance, women have been to be more emotional, thinking that releasing emotions makes them stronger whereas men tend to hold their emotions in, thinking that showing any kind of emotion is weak. Women are more open and men are more closed. However when men show emotion, women don't give advise or tell them what they need to do whereas when women show emotion, men offer them advise or tell them what to do, when in most cases, women just need to vent and listened to instead of talked to.

Relationships

We all need in a relationship of some-sort with one-another. Each and everyone of us needs to be social with another human being otherwise, there's no point of life. But in those relationships, especially personal relationships, we need to communicate with one-another. Boyfriends/husbands and girlfriends/wives need to communication with each other otherwise the lack trust will exist.

But how would you be able to do that? You need to find someone that you are compatible with. But as I've been noticing, trying to find someone myself, is you need to know about yourself before you are allowed to know someone else. Confidence is a big thing among everyone looking for someone. Without it, you are not going to get very far. No relationship with anyone, no job. Nothing.

Another language barrier is the risk of rejection. In this society, men are required to make the "first move" when approaching a woman. However, if your wondering why he isn't approaching you (and you know there are mutual feelings), it might be because of the fact that he is scared of rejection. Personally I've been there. I think all men have been there. You see a woman you like and she likes you back but don't do anything about because of the fear of rejection. Kind of reminds me of the song by Young M.C. called "Bust a Move". Basically it tells of a story of a guy who is having trouble impressing the ladies. Later, towards the end, the guy gets his wish and gets a girl. It actually is one of my favorite songs.

Want a cure so you don't get rejected, I may have a solution. When I worked at Northwest Como Recreation Center in their S'more Fun program, I noticed is that the kids had no problems communicating with each other. No one got rejected because of gender he/she is, what game was being played and so on. Maybe that's what we should do. Pretend we are children so we can communicate easier, but acting our age while doing so? Hmm. I wish I would have tried that before leaving. I worked with a group of females. I was the only male so it made it harder for me to be there.

I don't know if that actually would work. I guess I'm just talking. But I suppose that if we are calm, confident and know who we are, we shouldn't have a problem communicating with one another.